Three red flags you may hear at a newborn appointment
Welcoming a newborn into the world is a joyful experience, but it also comes with a set of challenges and concerns, especially when it comes to understanding your baby’s health. During initial newborn appointments, parents often encounter a range of information and advice from healthcare providers. Amidst this, there are a few red flags that might indicate a deeper issue with your baby’s feeding and overall well-being.
Here are three important red flags to be aware of:
1. “It’s Just Colic; They’ll Outgrow It”
Hearing that your baby’s fussiness or excessive crying is merely colic might feel like a brush-off. It’s important to understand that colic is not a diagnosis in itself but a symptom. It could signal an underlying feeding issue that needs attention. Instead of accepting “it’s just colic,” consider seeking a thorough feeding assessment to uncover any potential problems with milk transfer or supply.
2. “I’m Prescribing Reflux Medication”
While reflux medication can be beneficial in certain cases, it’s crucial to evaluate whether it’s truly necessary for your baby. If your baby is gaining weight yet remains fussy or frequently spits up, it might not be a sign for medication. Often, these signs indicate feeding issues, such as milk imbalances or difficulties in milk supply and transfer. In such scenarios, a feeding assessment, not medication, should be the priority.
3. “Stop Worrying, Your Baby’s Gaining Weight”
Gaining weight is not always an indicator of good health. Concerns often arise when doctors reassure parents, saying there’s nothing to worry about as long as the baby’s weight is increasing. However, underlying feeding issues can still exist even if your baby is following the growth curve. For instance, an overproduction of milk might cause babies to struggle at the breast and remain fussy because they’re feeding constantly. If dismissed, these issues can lead to long-term difficulties.
Empowering Yourself
If you find these discussions arising during your newborn appointments and feel unsure or dismissed, trust your instincts. Book a feeding assessment with a lactation consultant or a specialized provider. An effective assessment can identify and address feeding challenges early on, preventing unnecessary stress and ensuring your baby’s healthy development.
Remember, as a parent, no concern is too small when it comes to your child’s health. Engage in open dialogues with your healthcare provider, ask questions, and make sure you feel heard. Ultimately, you are your baby’s best advocate, and seeking answers is part of ensuring their well-being. If you find yourself with lingering questions, don’t hesitate to reach out in the comments. Your concerns are valid, and support is available to help guide you through these early stages of parenthood.
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